Dear Genie #4

     Toi, from Buckhannon writes: Dear Genie, I’m not a fan of talking about my mistakes. I’m normally the person who denies making any, but I know that one in particular is about to come to the surface. It was unintentional, but it happened. I overdrew my bank account and used our vacation fundContinue reading “Dear Genie #4”

Fear Energy

If there is a silver lining at all to the 2016 American Election Cycle is that we have very visible proof of what what happens when an entire nation is frozen in fear.  Both sides of the election made the entire thing about which side we needed to fear more.  And the fear-mongering continues on still.Continue reading “Fear Energy”

I Am Responsible For Me

It sounds harsh, I know – but the truth is that once you are an adult you are responsible for your own happiness.  No one else is the cause of your decisions, whether or not you succeed, or if you are happy.  Once we are an adult we cannot blame others (mom or dad) forContinue reading “I Am Responsible For Me”

Perfectly Imperfect

Laugh. Laugh at yourself. Stop kicking your own ass for your mistakes. Learn. Forgive. Move forward. We all make mistakes.  Are you a perfectionist?  Man, that is a lot of pressure!  I know.  I’ve been there.  The urge to have the perfect life, the perfect job, to be surrounded by other perfect people who actContinue reading “Perfectly Imperfect”